Book Secret 7

Without a doubt, my research for my doctoral dissertation about "suicide bereavement" and my clinical work with those who lost loved ones by suicide played a very large role in my writing of Chapter 37-"Life Goes On." I've met and worked with children as young as 3 or 4, to adults in their 90's, all experiencing effects of loss by suicide. My personal and professional value and focus on the uniqueness and gift of a human being has been essential for my role as helper or psychotherapist. Despite my extensive background and ongoing clinical work with these bereaved persons, and knowledge and empathy acquired therein, I remain troubled by what I perceive to be the deep, prolonged and ongoing "hurt" that others bear after Sylvia Plath's suicide. I speak of this in Chapter 1. My thoughts, prayers, hopes, and wishes go out to all. Although name will not be mentioned here, one gifted and beautiful being remains foremost in my mind. Loss by suicide is something we should, in my view, seek to eliminate. It's pain and anguish not only touches many, but also "carries on" in effect over many generations. Perhaps the greatest gift I give as a psychotherapist is faith, hope and love for life and the belief that upholding these "virtues" or good habits defeats despair and helps eradicate suicidality. I work to help others develop these habits.